You shouldn't have to hold this alone.
A private, virtual 75-minute session to get your parents' information organized, the hard conversations planned, and real support in your corner.
You know your mom's coffee order. You know which one of you she calls when the Wi-Fi stops working. You know your dad will insist everything important is in the filing cabinet.
But do you know where the will actually is? Who has power of attorney? What accounts exist, and how the bills get paid? Do you know where her medication list and health history are kept, the ones paramedics would actually need if they were standing in her kitchen? How you'd get into his phone or her email if you suddenly had to?
This isn't about planning a funeral over Sunday dinner. It's about knowing what to ask, and how to ask it, before you're asking it in a hospital hallway.
The paperwork matters. So does having someone beside you while you sort it out.
Most adult children never got handed a manual for this. Nobody sits you down and explains what you're supposed to know once your parents start getting older: what to ask, who to loop in, how to even bring it up. So you start noticing things instead, and carrying them quietly. Your mom just turned 76. Your dad's had a couple of scares. One of them handles everything, and the other one has no idea where anything is.
You're already holding a lot: your own family, a job, everyone's schedules, and now this too. And a quiet thought starts following you around: if something happened tomorrow, would you know what to do?
This is harder than planning a wedding or a move. Aging and mortality can make even simple questions feel heavy, and avoidance and denial are normal here, both yours and theirs. I've spent years helping people find their way into these conversations steadily, without panic, so you're not the one who has to figure out where to start.
The Aging Parent Planning Session
We spend 75 minutes going through your actual situation together. By the end, you have a real plan built around your family, and someone in this with you.
This is a private, virtual session. We'll look at what your parents already have in place, what's missing, what conversations still need to happen, and who else might need to be part of this. Not a template pulled off the internet. Yours, and you won't be sorting it out by yourself.
Built around your actual family, not a template. What to find, what to confirm, what to ask.
What needs locating, what needs confirming, and what simply doesn't exist yet, so you know exactly where things stand.
Knowing you need to talk to your parents is one thing. Knowing how to bring it up without sounding like you've started planning their funeral is another. We'll map an approach that fits how your family actually talks to each other.
The specific things to ask your parents now, while they can still answer them.
Phones, email, online accounts, passwords. Life doesn't live in a filing cabinet anymore, whatever your dad insists.
If your family needs a lawyer, accountant, financial planner, or another professional, you'll know which kind to look for.
What to do first, second, and third, so this becomes something you actually move on instead of another line on a list you're avoiding.
Written from what we actually find in your session together, not a generic template. Your priorities, in the order that makes sense for your family, with next steps attached to each one.
A step-by-step planning and organization system, covering the same ground we go through together, so nothing gets lost after the session ends. Work through it a little at a time, and open it again the moment anything changes.
$150 USD
75 minutes · private and virtual
"You're the one everyone calls." The doctor's appointment, the confusing mail, the smoke detector that won't stop beeping.
Your parents are getting older, and you've realized you know less about their affairs than you thought.
You know a hard conversation needs to happen, and you don't know how to start it.
One parent runs everything, and you're quietly worried about what happens if they can't anymore.
You’ve already had one health scare, and it showed you how fast "someday" turns into "now."
You want someone who's done this before, sitting with you while you figure it out.
An emergency doesn't wait for the paperwork. It doesn't pause for a password, or for anyone to remember which lawyer drew up the will.
You can't control when your family needs this. You can control whether you're ready, and whether someone's beside you when you are.
Is this only for people whose parents are already sick?
No. Most people who book this are here specifically because nothing has happened yet. That's the best time to do it.
What if my parents don't want to talk about this?
We'll build an approach that fits how your family actually communicates. You don't need their participation to leave this session with a clear plan for what to do next.
Do I need to bring documents or information with me?
Whatever you've got is useful, but nothing is required. Part of the session is figuring out what you don't have yet.
What if I have siblings who should be involved?
You're welcome to invite them to the session. Some people prefer to come alone first and loop the rest of the family in after.
Is this covered by insurance or a benefits plan?
No. This is a private planning session, not a medical or clinical service.
Legal advice, or a stand-in for your parents' lawyer
Financial advice, or a stand-in for their accountant or planner
Medical advice, or a stand-in for their doctor
Me telling your parents what to decide. That's never my call
My job is to help you understand what information you need to gather, what conversations need to happen, where the gaps are, and which professionals might need to be part of it.
Think of it as getting the map before you start driving.
75 minutes. One plan. Someone in this with you.
$150 USD · 75 minutes · private and virtual
You don't have to be the one who brings it up first, or wait for an emergency to make it real.
Your parents getting older isn't something you can prevent. Knowing what to do when the time comes, with someone beside you, is something you can prepare for.